Experience BDSFemme

Author: Priyanka Saxena on Aug 22,2016

Ladies, are you kink curious?  If you’re looking for something completely different or just enjoy thinking outside of the box then BDSFemme might be just what you need.  Indeed, it might be just what you really want. . . and if it isn’t what you want now, you’ll want it before it’s all over.  

BDSFemme is an exclusive BDSM cocktail party with the L.A. Femme Society.  It is open to cis and trans women.  It is an evening for ladies to “explore kink”.  

In fact, as this goes to press BDSFemme will now be held at the Dungeon East in Los Angeles, California on Saturday September 17 2016.  Hosted by professional and lifestyle domme Mistress Justine Cross, owner and HBIC of Dungeon East and Dungeon West, the freaky festivities begin at 8 p.m. and run until Sunday, September 18, 2016 at 2 a.m.  This event is specifically for allowing women to explore the world of kink and BDSM with other women.  

It will be held in a private dungeon.  The address will be given the day RSVPs are confirmed.  The venue, Dungeon East, the newest dungeon studio in the city of Los Angeles, has already been seen in Playboy and Urban Daddy.  

It’s an all white dungeon.  It has also already been the site for such other GLBTQ events as  Fresh Meat - “a queer poc play party” and the Biannual Queer Clothing Swap.

This night will focus on four topics.  Each one will have its own demo station.  The subjects are: bondage, bootblacking, electroplay and spanking.  Those in attendance may check out all the different stations, mingle or simply it and watch the event unfold.

The Bootblack booth will be run by Danielle V.  She is a leathergirl and a bootblack based out of Los Angeles, California.  She holds the first Southern California Leather Bootblack Title from Leather H.E.A.T.

Mistress Natalie West will be in charge of the Electroplay station.  West is also based out of Los Angeles.  She is a lesbian dominatrix.  She has a particular knowledge of such things as bondage, gender bending, impact play, leather, power exchange, role play scenarios and of course electroplay.  

Nili will handle the Spanking station.  Nili is a self-described “switch queer leather girl”.  She enjoys the power dynamics involved with BDSM.  Once a professional dominatrix, she has been involved in this scene for years.

The Bondage booth will be handled by the host Cross.  Cross has been featured in both Playboy and Los Angeles Magazine.  She has been a consultant for numerous BDSM video and print productions in L.A.

Those ladies attending are encouraged to wear whatever they normally would wear when going out to a bar, club or any other cocktail party.  Although with a bootblacking play station ladies are also welcome to wear leather books and jackets as well.  It is also noted that while this will be a fun night, it is more an evening of exploration and inquiry than an actual "play party".  

Mistress Cross reiterates that “it's not going to be naked and/or extreme types of play.”  She concluded: “[On the other hand], after 10 p.m. who knows how the party will morph?”

Tickets for this evening are presently priced at $15.00.  Your admission ticket includes your coat check, sampling all the play stations and (for those 21 and over) access to the cash bar.  An RSVP is required and street parking is free.  

(All images are courtesy of the original owner unless otherwise indicated.)



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